The first proximity with the guy

How ideally the girl imagines an intimate appointment? If the guy was pleasant to it and to all appearances everything happens soon, then in the imagination the girl can draw to herself the picture of ideal first proximity. With all attributes which usually we got used to see in romantic scenes at cinema. Candles, pleasant music, petals of roses scattered on a bed (it is desirable with silk linen of red color), long slow caress, and, as apogee, so rough and colourful final. In practice, often everything occurs according to other scenario.

Usually the guy does not draw to himself romantic pictures, and just wants the woman. His passion can be rough and unrestrained, and often it just is not enough for long caress or preludes. Especially often so it happens if the girl already long is pleasant to the guy, and an opportunity to stay alone everything was not represented. And happens and so that the passion rolls after the first appointment. And the fact that the girl is burned with impatience too does not prevent it to refuse to the guy in the first evening.

Education and belief that will badly think of you is guilty of such decision. It can partly and so. Though usually, the guy it also does not think of anything and if he does not dream of sex after the first meeting, then, most likely, it or it is banal is married, or the adventurer who from you needs not sex, and something else. So, down with stereotypes.

Often, after the first proximity, the girl feels disappointment. That everything happened too quickly, or it is not as beautiful as it was programmed at it in the head. From the fact that she did not test a magic orgasm about which her girlfriends speak so much, from what right after proximity, darling about it forgot, snuffling enough, but not questioning: "I incidentally did not make to you something not so?", and even does not think to speak about the feelings.

How here not to be upset? Women assign too big claims to men and when in practice everything happens not according to the planned scenario, they does not notice the most important, attaching great value to conventions and myths. And, above all what occurs between two people when they meet in one bed - it is love and passion and as they are shown and whether beautiful words, already not so important are pronounced at the same time.

If you want romanticism, it is better to be prepared. Sale of bed linen in online store will help you to create the necessary situation. The muffled light and music, a bathtub with foam and aromatic candles. Everything will be as you want.